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Feauture member of week Judith Dagley Flaherty, L.M.F.T

Posted by mobilegourmet on June 13, 2009 at 10:07 PM

I would like to introduce you to Judith,She will be sharing some very helpful healing advise, this week. I am hornored to have you welcome !

-------------------- Judith Dagley Flaherty, L.M.F.T.: What's on my mind is that I discovered that we all have the power to heal ourselves!  I know because I did it.  And that changes EVERYTHING!

Thank you, Melinda, for featuring me! However, I don't know where to begin because there is so much to share that I am excited about, and I don't even how to include it all! I think what I'll do is say just a little about most of it, and then I'll be happy to elaborate on any of it for anyone interested in knowing more. Just send me a message, and I'll tell you all you want to know! First of all, I just love my work as a psychotherapist in private practice in West Los Angeles. My focus is on discovering solutions, creating positive change, and healing. You can read about my work on my website at www.judithdagleyflahertylmft.com You can also read my weekly blog on the site, "Blogging for Change," and post comments or questions about the blogs that I will respond to right away. I love hearing from readers! I should also mention that I've developed the ability to work energetically and intuitively, and so often do phone sessions with people who live too far away to come in to see me. AND...I offer a free 20 minute phone consultation to anyone who wants one! In addition to psychotherapy, I have studied shamanism with a shamanic healer in New Mexico, taken shamanic journeys, and practice shamanism a little on my own now. I also have studied Native American healing with Pueblo Indians (again in New Mexico!), and stay with my Native American friends when I visit Santa Fe (which is as often as I can!). Another thing I do is present workshops and seminars incorporating things I have learned or inspire me into the field of psychotherapy. I recently presented one on the power of poetry in therapy at a seminar in Maui. I'm presenting a workshop on August 1st for therapists here in L.A. on applying the principles of shamanism to their work in creating positive change. I'm really excited about that one! Its called "Therapists: Shamans of Change." Now! The best for last! The most radically wonderful thing in my life right now is that I healed myself about two months ago from a year long, life threatening, supposedly chronic, illness!! Do you doubt that's possible? So did I until I DID it, and it only took about two weeks. I began to receive guidance "out of the blue," and I followed it. That's all, really. But whoa! What I realized to my amazement was that I was channeling this guidance! And in addition to learning to heal myself, I've gotten lots of invaluable information about this planet, why we're here, and how to clear old "programs" internally that keep us stuck and prevent us from attracting what we want. My consciousness has expanded, I'm learning to stay in the state of "unconditional" love more and more, and actually choose my experiences in the moment! Needles to say, this guidance is not something I'm going to give up!! I've found confirmation and support from a master channeler here in L.A., and everything has fallen into place. What I want to say to you who are reading this is that I'm nobody special, or at least not more special than you are. ANYONE can heal themselves, and anyone can channel. In fact, everybody does it sometimes without even realizing it! And the frequency of the planet is changing, so it is becoming much easier to do. If you want to learn more about how to heal yourself, the first, critical, step is to believe 100% that you CAN. You are source energy! We just "forgot." Don't buy into anyone's doubts about that. As I said, I'll be happy to share with you more about how I learned to do it. I could go on and on about that--I want to share all about it with everyone--but I think I've taken up enough space, and said enough for now. Besides, I'm getting tired of talking about myself! I wish you all radiant health and abundant self-love !

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Reply Sally Loy
09:18 AM on June 14, 2009 
Welcome Judith ! Please post and tell us more on how you healed yourself ! I will be checking ut your site
Reply MissyRA
09:20 AM on June 14, 2009 
Yes, tell us more . Do not leave us hanging. O by the way, welcome !
Reply Chef Ralph
09:24 AM on June 14, 2009 
Hello Judith, I must say, you have gotten my attention. I also would love to hear more, go on. I will swing by your site tomorrow, Nice to meet you !
Reply grampata
10:50 AM on June 14, 2009 
Welcome judith! great job. great site .please post more ,very interesting
Reply judithdagleyflahertylmft
02:44 PM on June 15, 2009 
Hi Sally, MissyRA, Chef Ralph, and grampata!
Thanks for your welcome , and your interest! About healing yourself: Most importantly, you have to decide that you CAN. This work is done energetically, and if you have doubts, you'll communicate to your body that you have doubts that you can heal! From there, the process gets a little different for everyone, because we're all different in lots of ways. However, some basic components are:
--self love and awareness of inner strength (You'd be surprised what old tapes of things like self-loathing, self-denial, weakness, hopelessness, etc. you might be carrying around in you! Neutralize them, and replace them with tapes that will support your healing energetically. I'll explain neutralizing in a second!)
--Decide, from deep inside you, that you are now beginning to heal. Right now. Believe it. See it, feel it, and imagine yourself healed constantly.
--Don't give any attention to thoughts about symptoms, or your illness. Put your attention on becoming healed instead.
--To neutralize any thoughts or feelings that come up as you do this, realize that they are coming up to get your attention so that they can be cleared, or neutraloized, so they won't get in your way. To neutralize them, simply understand why you have them or how they once served you, and do this without any judgement. Then, "replace" them with alternative thoughts or feelings that support your healing.
That is a VERY brief outline of the process. I'm afraid it sounds decepeptively simple! It isn't, though; once you begin, the process gets very profound and surprising. Just remember that this is energetic work, so wherever your energy is directed, thats what you're fueling. I hope this helps at least a little, just to give you an idea. Let me know!
Wishing you radiant good health,
Judith
Reply mobilegourmet
03:06 PM on June 15, 2009 
Good article, and good advise, I do agree with postive inner feelings as well. I try not to focus on my pain, I focus on other things. Yes, it is very hard when every joint in the body is throbbing like a tooth ache and it hurts just to stand. But there are many times I get caught up in my daily avtiviities and forget about the pain for a bit. As soon as I have a second the pain seems to barrel in. Then back to refocusing, it a battle daily, Thank you for sharing!
Reply judithdagleyflahertylmft
08:16 PM on June 15, 2009 
You are so right about focus, Melinda! I'm glad you shared what you did, because I neglected to emphasize that. It takes TOTAL focus and TOTAL determination to do this! A quantum leap above and beyond what we're used to. That is key, and I know personally how challenging it is when you feel sick and in pain. I wrote above that my brief description of self-healing sounded simpler than the process really is, and there's an example. I guess I could say that our ability to heal ourselves rests on our total commitment and inner strength in doing so. NOT that simple! But POSSIBLE. We are much more powerful than we know.
OK, I just wanted to pop back and add that! Now, back to work!
Reply Akurt
10:17 AM on June 16, 2009 
Great advise !
Reply going4it
08:38 AM on June 22, 2009 
good story nice to meet you
Reply Judith Dagley Flaherty, L.M.F.T.
05:12 PM on June 23, 2009 
going4it says...
good story nice to meet you


Thanks, going4it! Nice to meet you, too!
Reply Zoey Linx
02:36 PM on June 24, 2009 
nice to meet you. I find your posts so interesting
Reply LANCE TROTTIER
08:34 PM on June 30, 2009 
AWESOME TO MEET YOU, JUDITH! PLEASE DO TELL MORE... AND THE SITE LOOKS GOOD!
Reply Judith Dagley Flaherty
12:04 AM on July 02, 2009 
Thanks, Lance! I'm glad you like my site! I'll be happy to tell you more. What in particular do you want to know more about?
Judith

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